So here’s my question…what’s the point of dating a married
man?
Some may say for money? To have someone you know is there
but will not be too demanding because he has somewhat of a curfew?
Is it some test some girls need to go through
in order to see if they can get away with it? What exactly is the point?
I have asked a lot of girls who are dating or have dated
married men and they all basically said the same thing…survival!!!
I am not going to judge here people but this is my opinion…
When you date a married man knowing very well that he’s
married from the get go it should be simple…DO NOT HAVE EXPECTATIONS! PERIOD!
Do what you do with the man and let him go home, don’t
cuddle, don’t dance till the wee hours of the morning etc but you can of course
lie to each other and pretend that you’re in love for the hour or two you spend
with him. Sounds simple enough right?
Well…If you are a romantic at heart you should just go find a
man in church, although from what I have seen that can be dangerous too (a
story for another day). This is not for
the faint hearted, I mean let’s face it, that man got married for a reason, no
matter what it is, he will not leave his wife for you unless you’re really,
really good at what you do (whatever
that may be, yes including *%$^#@! *side eye*). If you want to fall in love stay
clear of married men, plus that would result in less passion crimes.
Now if you are one bad ass b***h go ahead, go for it, do
your thing girl, show them what you got. Go for that man but be warned…he already
knows how the story ends and you are clueless! As clueless as you may be just
act like you know what you’re doing, you’re the bad ass right? Make sure you
remind yourself each and every day that you cannot fall in love with this man!
No matter how many times he says he loves you, you must know that there’s a
difference between love and lust and he can’t exactly say I am in lust with youu
or I lust you now can he? Some men just say I love you to avoid awkward
moments, true story!
Please don’t get me wrong, I am NOT encouraging anyone to go
date a married man. All I’m doing is giving my 2 cents to the brave
at heart. Let’s face it, no matter what I say there will always be people dating
each other no matter how moral or immoral it may be. One blog post will not
change the world!
No matter what your reason for dating a married man may be
you should always remember that you’re not number one so don’t act like you are
cause I bet you could come across as cray-cray (crazy).
Now I’m no miss know it all but I talk to people and I do
things so don’t take anything you may read here personal, after all it’s only
my opinion!
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